I use a marble blade for marble, porcelain blade for porcelain so on and so on. I believe it makes a difference.
50 bucks is cheap for a marble blade, usually they are 150-500 bucks. Try master wholesale inc.
If there is no chamfer edge it is rectified and must be spaced for grout. With a chamfer edge you can but tiles together if it is high quallity and the grout will stick. When grouting marble you must use unsanded grout or marble will scratch.
Try a dry run with tiles to achieve less cuts, and try to hide your cuts.
I would not chamfer any edges that would be crazy.
I would try the marble blade if the flaking is that bad
