Sit down and write-up what you want done from the studs and raw subfloor to completion. Take quotes on that phase only. This way you are getting prices that are apples to apples.
Once you have secured a satisfactory price then hire a handyman to do the demolition taking everything down to studs and raw subfloor.
I honestly think your safest bet is in using the Schluter System, there is less room for error and you won't be getting involved in grandpas techniques handed down.
Schluter may cost slightly more but is much less labor-intensive and there could actually be some savings there to say nothing of the quick turn around time.
You could use KERDI Mat on greenboard. They say you can KERDI drywall but I wouldn't do it.

If you require plumbing then hire a plumber.
